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Award-winning journalist and Emmy-nominated producer on her book Ghosts of a Holy War — and the shocking parallels between 1929 and October 7.
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Rob Henderson — From Foster Care to Yale
On class, character, and the luxury beliefs the elite preach but never pay for.
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Beyond happiness and meaning — the case for a life filled with novelty, perspective, and surprise.
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A palliative care physician who lost both legs in an accident and went on to change how America thinks about dying — and what that teaches us about living.
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Julie Smolyansky — The Queen of Kefir: CEO Guts, Courage & Stamina
How she took over her father's company, built Lifeway Foods into the company behind 95% of kefir sold in America, and what it actually takes to lead.
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Susan Griffin-Black — EO Products Co-Founder: Building a Business You'd Actually Want to Work For
From Pittsburgh to pioneering the natural products industry — how she built EO Essential Oils on values, sustainability, and the belief that purpose and profit don't have to fight.
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Rabbi Daniel Lapin — What Your Relationship with Money Says About Your Character
Why pursuing wealth isn't greedy — it's moral. Ancient wisdom on money, character, and what it actually means to serve others through business.
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Marissa Streit — When Education Turns Into One-Sided Activism
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Oikophobia: Why Successful Societies Turn Against Themselves
June 15, 202658 minBenedict Beckeld — Philosopher and author, Western Self-Contempt: Oikophobia and the Decline of Civilizations .
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Why Antizionism Is a War on Jewish Existence
May 12, 202645 minAdam Louis Klein — PhD candidate in anthropology, McGill University. Founder, MAAZ Action.
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What Your Relationship With Money Says About Your Character
April 28, 202657 minRabbi Daniel Lapin — Author, Thou Shall Prosper . Founder, American Alliance of Jews and Christians.
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All the News That's Fit to Spin
March 18, 202664 minAshley Rindsberg — Investigative journalist. Author, The Gray Lady Winked .
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If Iran Breaks Free
January 21, 202625 minJonathan Harounoff — British-Iranian journalist. Author, Unveiled: Inside Iran's Woman, Life, Freedom Revolt .
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When Education Turns Into One-Sided Activism with Marissa Streit CEO of PragerU
January 18, 202662 minWe speak with Marissa Streit , CEO of P ragerU a bout education, civics, and parenting in a time of cultural chaos. Marissa shares the moment that inspired her to “enlist” through education, explains why activism can show up even in math and literacy, and calls on parents to stop outsourcing values to institutions. Our discussion also explores he crisis facing young women today—marriage, meaning, dignity, and femininity—and why Marissa believes a new “revolution” is needed. Plus: practical ways to use PragerU at home in just 5–20 minutes a day.
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Foster Care to Yale: The Truth About Luxury Beliefs with Rob Henderson
December 20, 202582 minRob Henderson , known for coining the term “luxury beliefs,” joins us to discuss his memoir Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class . Rob shares his extraordinary path—from homelessness and the LA foster care system, to adoption in rural Northern California, to enlisting in the Air Force at 17, and eventually studying at Yale and Cambridge .
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Chosen for Responsibility: Judaism, Israel, and the Battle Over the Jewish Story
December 7, 202566 minSarah Hurwitz — Former head speechwriter for First Lady Michelle Obama. Author, Here All Along and As a Jew .
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Your School’s Ethnic Studies Curriculum Might Be More Radical Than You Think - Monica Harris Explains Why
November 22, 202549 minMonica Harris is the Executive Director of FAIR For All , a Harvard Law graduate, former Hollywood executive, and author of The Illusion of Division .
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From “America Is Evil” to American Exceptionalism: Lucy Biggers’ Turnaround
November 18, 202547 minIn this episode, we speak with Lucy Biggers, head of social media at The Free Press a nd a former climate activist who has completely rethought the story she was telling the world and herself. Lucy shares how she went from a left-wing digital newsroom steeped in oppressor–oppressed ideology and climate doomsday content to slowly “re-educating” herself, especially after COVID lockdowns made her question what the climate movement was really asking of ordinary people.
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What Love Makes Possible: Leland Vittert on His Father, Autism & a Lucky Life
November 14, 202546 minLeland Vittert , NewsNation’s chief Washington anchor and author of the memoir Born Lucky , joins us to talk about his childhood, his career, and all the unexpected ways he truly was born lucky.
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Undercover Billionaire Elaine Culotti is Taking on California’s Toughest Problems
October 5, 202549 minWhat happens when a no-nonsense entrepreneur decides she’s had enough of California’s chaos? Elaine Culotti has ideas politicians won’t touch.
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The Queen of Kefir: Julie Smolyansky on CEO Guts, Courage & Stamina
September 29, 202549 minOur guest is Julie Smolyansky , CEO of Lifeway Food s, the company that pioneered the kefir market in America and today produces 95% of the kefir sold in the U.S.
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Brandy Shufutinsky on the Marxist Roots of Ethnic Studies in K-12 Schools and College Campuses
August 1, 202548 minBrandy Shufutinsky is the newly appointed Director of the Education and National Security Program at the Foundation for Defense of Democracies. In this important conversation, we disciuss how today’s ethnic studies curriculum, originally intended to promote understanding among diverse communities, i s instead fueling division, promoting an oppressor-vs-oppressed worldview, and teaching students that capitalism is synonymous with white supremacy and exploitation.
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Stella Escobedo on Honesty in Journalism
July 26, 202551 minStella Escobedo is an Emmy award winning news anchor-reporter with nearly 20 years experience, a fearless journalist and an advocate who immigrated to the U.S. from Uzbekistan. Stella is currently a news anchor for One American News (OAN). In this conversation, Stella shares how her upbringing shaped her values, her global perspective, and the causes of her disillusionment with mainstream media.
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Justice, Forgiveness, and One Remarkable Friendship
July 7, 202560 minKaren McKinney was a prosecutor working in the gang unit when her path first crossed with Joseph Herrera, a man she would go on to prosecute for murder. Twenty years later, Karen faced Joseph when he was up for parole. Not exactly your classic “how we met” story. What no one could have predicted is that years later, the two would form an extraordinary friendship that would transform both of their lives.
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Still chasing the 'retire early' fantasy? This conversation with David Bahnsen might just change your mind.
June 12, 202539 minIn this episode, we talk about the value of work with David Bahnsen, Managing Partner and Chief Investment Officer of The Bahnsen Group, a wealth management firm based in Newport Beach, California overseeing $4 billion in client's assets, David is also a thought leader, and author of Full-Time: Work and the Meaning of Life. David wants to challenge one of society’s most accepted myths: that success means eventually not working.
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Ada Palmer on Surviving the End of the World… Again and Again
June 3, 202562 minAda Palmer, is a sci-fi writer, historian, and someone who sees the world with an incredibly rare, long lens. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the headlines, this episode might help.
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From Rock Bottom to Chasing Destiny in Paris: Natasha Sizlo on Fate, Family and Love
May 19, 202539 minNatasha Sizlo — Author, All Signs Point to Paris .
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How to Live a Psychologically Rich Life with Shigehiro Oishi
May 14, 202543 minhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/meant-for-you/id1036108112?i=1000661332590 Are you living a psychologically rich life? In this episode we discuss what it means to be psychologically rich and how you can generate more richness. In " Life in Three Dimensions: How Curiosity, Exploration, and Experience Make a Fuller, Better Life" , Shigehiro Oishi, Professor of Psychology at the University of Chicago, shares his research and the ways leading a psychologically rich life can transform how you prioritize your days and goals.
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